The friend who remains neutral to your problems because they are not hers.
The friend who refuses to give you her opinion because it may make her sound judgmental/bad.
The friend who doesnt want to be involved in your problems because why should she/he care!

In my opinion there are only friends and foes. No such thing as a fence-sitter friend. Nope. The moment you got comfortable up there being your uninvolved self is the moment I disregard your participation in this friendship.

What kind of friend is this?
What happened to "a friend in need's a friend indeed"?
Who the f*** needs a friend who can't even give u an opinion when u are in need of help.
Would you even consider that as a friend?

Today a person I thought was my friend faced a problem, the problem of having to give me an opinion.
I was in a really bad place today and I know I need third person's view to help me out.

I consulted two friends who I deemed as the most level headed and objective people I know.
One of them discussed the matter with me promptly, giving me her views about this matter.

The other mostly beat about the bush... and finally i just asked "what's your opinion then?"
It was SOOO hard for her to even make a judgement of the situation.

She used the mildest words possible to hint at a very slight possibility that she might have an opinion and then immediately she told me she was not comfortable doing this as she feels bad.

Well. A friend who doesnt care about your well being and emotions being troddened is certainly not suitable to be called a friend.

I believe in friends going through thick and thin..
NOT just going out having fun in the sun taking silly pictures.

Thats all for today.

Ciao.